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About Prostate Cancer

According to the American Cancer Society, most men should start having prostate exams at age 50. Unless they have a family history of prostate cancer, then they should start at 45. Though in some cases you should start even earlier, especially if you have any unusual symptoms. I had an enlarged prostate off and on since my mid 30s, but no one thought it was serious enough to do a biopsy. I didn't have one done until my doctor found a bump on my prostate and by then it was late stage 2.


Now I wonder if we had checked earlier in my life, I might not have gone through this ordeal. But I'm here now and managing to thrive in this new reality.


Most men hate getting prostate exams, so they avoid them. Take it from me, the discomfort of getting one is nothing compared to having radioactive seeds implanted in your prostate and having radiation shot into your groin while you lie there and pray they don't fry your entire reproductive system.

Take the easier route. Get a regular exam!

Getting Checked for Prostate Cancer

About Prostate Cancer

Prostate cancer is a type of cancer that begins in the prostate, a small gland in the male reproductive system that helps produce semen and is located just below the bladder. It's a common cancer, but it's usually detected early and often grows slowly, leading to a high cure rate for most individuals.


Treatment Options

If you're diagnosed with early-stage prostate cancer, you'll likely have several treatment options to consider, which can feel overwhelming. These options can include surgery, radiation therapy, or actively monitoring the cancer to see if it progresses. Even if the cancer spreads beyond the prostate, or to other parts of the body (called metastatic, stage 4, or advanced prostate cancer), there are still many treatment options available. While a cure might be more difficult if the cancer has spread, treatments can still help slow its growth and extend your life.

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Symptoms to Watch For

In its early stages, prostate cancer often doesn't cause any symptoms because it's typically confined to the prostate. However, when symptoms do appear, they can include:


  • Blood in your urine, which might make it appear pink, red, or cola-colored.
  • Blood in your semen.
  • Needing to urinate more frequently.
  • Difficulty starting urination.
  • Waking up more often at night to urinate.


If prostate cancer spreads to other parts of the body, you might experience additional symptoms, such as:

  • Accidental urine leakage.
  • Back pain.
  • Bone pain.
  • Difficulty getting an erection (erectile dysfunction).
  • Feeling very tired.
  • Unexplained weight loss.
  • Weakness in your arms or legs.


If you notice any of these symptoms and they're causing you concern, it's a good idea to schedule an appointment with your doctor or another healthcare professional.

Getting a Prostate Exam

What Causes Prostate Cancer?

The exact cause of prostate cancer isn't always clear. It starts when there are changes in the DNA of prostate cells. Our DNA contains the instructions that tell cells what to do. For healthy cells, DNA guides them to grow, multiply, and eventually die at a specific rate. But with cancer cells, these DNA changes lead to different instructions. 


Cancer cells are told to grow and multiply rapidly and can continue to live even when healthy cells would die, leading to an excess of cells. This buildup can form a mass called a tumor, which can grow and harm healthy body tissue. Over time, these cancer cells can break away and spread to other areas of the body, a process known as metastatic cancer.


Some factors that increase the risk of prostate cancer include older age, obesity, and a family history of the disease.

Tips for Prevention

While there's no guaranteed way to prevent prostate cancer, you can take steps to potentially lower your risk:

  • Eat a healthy diet. Focus on a variety of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains, and try to limit animal fats. Some foods, like tomatoes, broccoli, cauliflower, and soy, have been linked to a lower risk of prostate cancer, though studies haven't definitively proven they can prevent it. Still, if you enjoy these foods, including them in your diet may offer some benefit.
  • Exercise most days of the week. It's not completely clear if exercise prevents prostate cancer, but it can help you maintain a healthy weight, improve your overall health, and boost your mood. If you're new to exercise, chat with a healthcare professional and start slowly, gradually increasing your activity.
  • Maintain a healthy weight. If you're at a healthy weight, continue with a healthy diet and regular exercise to maintain it. If you need to lose weight, try to incorporate more exercise and reduce your calorie intake. Your healthcare professional can help you create a personalized plan for healthy weight loss.
  • Don't smoke. If you don't smoke, don't start. If you do smoke, talk to your healthcare professional about strategies to quit, such as medicines, nicotine replacement products, or counseling.
  • Consider medicines to lower risk. If you're at a high risk for prostate cancer, your doctor might discuss medications like finasteride (Propecia, Proscar) and dutasteride (Avodart). These are often used to treat an enlarged prostate gland. It's important to discuss the potential benefits and risks with your healthcare professional, as prostate cancer that develops while taking these medicines tends to grow faster.

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